Has it ever happened to you..that you see something,hear something,read something and experience this incredible sense of deja vu..an inner voice that screams out 'thats me'!! Well I just lived through that right now.The following describes me in the truest sense ever.
"To have issues with boundaries,one must have boundaries first!!But I disappear into the person I love.I am the permeable membrane.If I love you,you can have everything.You can have my time,my devotion,my ass,my money,my family,my dog,my dog's money,my dog's time-everything.If I love you,I will carry for you all your pain.I will assume for you all your debts,I will protect you from your own insecurity,I will project upon you all sorts of good qualities that you have never actually cultivated in yourself and I will buy christmas presents for your entire family.I will give you the sun and the rain,and if they are not available I will give you a sun check and a rain check.I will give you all this and more,until I get so exhausted and depleted that the only way I can recover my energy is by becoming infatuated with someone else"
Excerpts from Eat Pray Love
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